Why do people do what they do? Good or bad. Why is it always too late? You feel disturbed every time you find someone succeeding something. You never thought of how much time of his life he's been thinking of it or how many times he fell and got up or even how much effort he did to get there. You only saw the output. And at that same time, you thought that it's by how many people you get around you -be it by your acts of kindness or so- that you are most protected, and you never were..
Since when was 'thank you' such a huge burden for you to carry and for the object of thankfulness to brag about. I don't think anything is wrong with us, our society, except lack of prerogatives or their misdistribution. We stopped looking for the details, we stopped stopping to explain ourselves, we stopped doing things except if everyone and every single one knows we have done them. Since when was everyone feeling so important? If this is not clear, let make it more clear, you're not. If your mom fills you up with confidence words everyday it's because she loves you, she never meant to make a selfish, arrogant man out of you. If your dad tells you you're pretty, it's because he sees how much his good acts and efforts in you have developed into a young born honor, he never meant for you to be a shown commodity. Your wife of twenty years marriage gave you so much to let her down, by simply cheating and blaming it on her carelessness, you're the one careless. Girls half dressed no one is impressed. Men with the mentality of fifteen years old boys and the body of mid-twenties all over the dance clubs you don't rock the world, you rock it's foundations. A devoted loving husband deserves much more acts of care and kindness, not more of an indifferent, uncaring wife. You give birth to a baby because you want to share more with the man you love, a baby to love and have it be better than you were raised. If you don't stop for the arrogant, the arrogant stops for no one, then. If you lack faith, you're filled with fear. If you stop defending yourself, society and ethics, no one is stopping to defend them for you. You're apathy is unappreciated. Your harshness won't be cherished. Every act of kindness is a bonus. Every act of rudeness grants you more fail. You don't need to escape the world, you simply need someone to believe in you. I have been raised in a society that tells me everyday what to do and what not to. Let me tell you what you should do. You should stop listening, you only be genuinely happy if you do what you love to do. Crying in front of someone you love is not a sin, you blame them if they don't understand when you do. If you feel unappreciated leave, if you stay you tolerate. Abusing your wife is the most act of proof you failing as a man. Insulting your children only proves you have no sense of nurse. Stop blaming the society, you're the society. God never asked us to see, note, grasp or observe, he asked us to believe. Late is for the non-believer. If you still have age, you still have a chance, no rationalizations. If you missed telling someone how much you care, do it now, don't fear they get you wrong, instead explain. It's OK to know you're hurt, show it and let others see you carrying it too. If you love a man let him know you do and then leave, you never know what that might change. If you love a woman, be proud and tell her, feelings are a precious thing to carry and a man who devotes to them is the real one. Don't underestimate someone's intelligence. Don't overestimate one's too. Stop being so servile yourself. Acknowledge the one's you love, help them fight their battles and embrace them. Believe them, believe in them. If someone deprives you of your hopes, it's because they're hopeless themselves. It's not how many people who knows you, it's how many distinguishes you. Love those who least deserve it, it's when they most need it. You build your fundamentals to stand on for the rest of your life. Fathom people's pain. Rethink, re-evaluate and reassess your priorities. If you start fighting eventually everyone will start too. All cheers to the believers, you're the leaders.
