Article about Love

What's love? And does every individual feel it the same way?

My answer is: No. They say you never love the same way twice in your life, so maybe no two can feel the same kind of love in this life. And my first question; What's love? Love is a feeling you get in your stomache every time you see him around. Love is when no place feels familiar because he isn't in it. Love is when you keep looking in all the faces you see in hopes you find his. Love is the soften expression that invades your face when you see him. 

Love is loving every part of him. Love is when you see nothing in the room but the frame of his face, heart and soul. Love is wanting to wake up to his face and falling asleep. Love is wanting to give him all your smiles. Love is when he is your reality and dreams.

Love is never giving up on him no matter what happens from him, because for true love you don't just give up, even if the object of affection is begging you to. Love is a thirst that's never quenched. Love is writing songs about him and wanting to sing them to him. Love is when you want to do everything for him and not for the sake of doing them. Love is when you always want more from him, but even the less is heavenly beautiful. Love is wanting to be familiar of all what he is. Love is when all the other guys are "only other men". Love is when he's the reflection in the mirror you always see. Love is when you see him in everything you do. Love is forgetting how your life was before you met him. Love is never wanting to pass a chance to get things close to him. 

Love is when his eyes are weak every time they meet you. Love is never hating him no matter how bad his flaws are. Love is when he looks at you in a way every other girl wants to be looked at. Love is never wanting to rush things with him, cause you want to deserve every second with him around. Love is the heavy breath you take every time you miss him. Love is when he is the king of your heart. Love is when your world wouldn't be without him in it. Love is Jack and Rose. Love is Gatsby waiting for five years for Daisy to get back to him and believing he can repeat the past to the part she was still in it. Love is Chuck & Blair. Love isn't away from your heart because he is away from your eyes, love never fades, love never ends.

ليه صعبة على ناس وسهلة على ناس؟

في ناس حياتها تبان اسهل من ناس تانية. مثلا عمرك ركبت مع واحد صاحبك حسيتها "سهلة"؟ كده الدنيا ماشية حلو ومفيش مشاكل و"متسهلة" .. لو عاز فكة موجودة، الركنة سهلة، الفلوس تمام.. إلخ

وصاحبك تاني اول ما تركب معاه تلعن اليوم اللي فكرت تنزل فيه من بيتك معاه. ماشي يتخانق والدنيا سودة في وشه مفيش بعد كده. قعدت فكرت في الموضوع ده كتير.. ليه الناس بتختلف، وقلت ده مش عدل عشان في من الناس اللي حياتهم صعبة اوي دول ناس فعلا طيبين وعاملين اللي عليهم خلقاً وديناً وعلى العكس في في اللي حياتهم متسهلة دول ناس .في دنيا تانية ولا هي هنا ولا عارفة هي عليها ايه. 

لقيت الاسباب كتير، من وجهة نظري ان مش شرط يكون بيعمل اللي عليه ممكن بس يكون متعّود يكدّر نفسه.. متعود ينفخ وينطر ودايما متوقع "التعسيف" بدل للتفاؤل وبدل "ان شاء الله حتمشي"..

عامل تاني؛ الفلوس.. خلينا نكون واضحين ومتفقين على ان كتر الفلوس دايما يعني كتر رفاهية ومتعة.. كل حاكة تحسها سهلة كده، معيش كذا نسيته في البيت خلاص حروح اشتري غيره من اي حتة وايه يعني .. معيش بنزين هاتولي بس سكة اقرب بنزينة.. عايز اكل في حتة اي مطعم مش مهم واللي نفسي فيه كمان.. بس فكرت ان الفلوس ممكن تكون ابتلاء؟ كل ما زادت القيمة المادية للاشياء كل ما زاد الطامعين. يعني مثلا مش حتتسرق فيزتك لو انت بتمشي ب٢٠ جنيه في جيبك ومعكش فيزا اصلا! ومش حيتسرق النوكيا بتاعك اللي محدش بيبصله اليومين دول وكله شغال سامسونج وتاتش وكده.. خلاصة الكلام انها معادلة كاملة التوازن، انت متعرفش ازاي ومش حتعرف ولا ليك انك تاخد بالك بس خليك متأكد ان مش ده العنصر المسبب.. 

امال ايه العنصر المسبب؟ في رأيي "حالة العقل" هي السبب في كل حاجة بنواجهها، The state of mind. كل ما تحط في عقلك افكار كئيبة ومملة وصعبة حتجييلك كل حاجة كئيبة ومملة وصعبة لانك ببساطة مش بتشوف الجانب الحلو بتاع كل حاجة، بتشوف الوحش بس.. لكن لو متوكل ومسهلها على نفسك وبتاخد كل حاجة وحشة بتحصل تشوف ايه الحلو فيها و"تفائلوا بالخير تجدوه" مش حتلاقي اسهل من كده وحتكون انت صاحبك اللي لما بتركب جمبه بتحسها "سهلة" و "ماشية" و "مريحة".. عقلك أداة استخدمها ومشيها زي ما تحب تكون حياتك..

Lost in Social Networks

I have got lost in Social Networks. Like really how come there could be so many of them nowadays? And we got ourselves stuck in there, like "oh I want to have an account on Twitter" and of course you have to have a Facebook, who doesn't? Google Plus, let's try it. And then there's tumblr it's fun and useful, then you have websites like weheartit which is for photo sharing but doesn't mind a follow, and soundcloud which is for songs sharing and even this have a follow and whatsoever. Let's not forget the great Whatsapp application, it's because everyone is using it, you can't not have one. Same goes for Skype, Viber... etc. Linkedin? Yeah because you have to say where do you work or if you're desperate to find a job, you'll also have to follow people you know there, and they won't be glad if they followed you and you didn't follow back. Instagram? How come I never mention it! Please take a photo of what you eat and add up some effects and let people know more of what they don't want to. Pinterest, is a very useful website for planning your whole wedding before even having someone to commit to. And you're supposed to be checking every notification everyday for the whole list AND have a life! The thing is people do get it really personal, I mean if you are bothered if I don't check my fb messages then for god's sake, do some effort and press the green button and call me!

What I really want to say is; we decide to complicate our lives by our own selves. Phone calls are not so cheap in Egypt but hearing the warmth of voice of someone you love, like or even are friends with, is all worth the pay. Limit your networks, make it harder for people to find you. Let them miss you, don't make it so easy to know you're okay by only checking your fb account's new profile picture, because it's not. I have tried it, people actually notice when you deactivate your account, they call to make sure you're okay off fb!? Plus, the time you spend everyday getting hold of all this, is enormous, you just don't know it. Make this time more worthy, by reading a book or adding something to your brain. I have learned the hard way, that school isn't the knowledge,neither is college, what really added up to me is the book that I opened on 

 purpose and read with full interest.