Why men love b*tches?

If you read the book by the author Sherry Argov the American writer, you'll be astonished how the American people think. Well according to the author, a bitch is a woman of power, self respect and loves herself more than she loves the other person in the relationship. And also according to the author a woman should be more of an equal than of a self-sacrificing or a victim to the man. But that's not the thing to be amazed about. That thing is that she's actually advising what most religions do advise. The less skin you uncover the more your value and the more the man's imagination goes when looking at you. Because yes men love to imagine more than to see what they're used to see everyday. Let's get back to our society, the more she uncovers the more she's interesting to a man! Why? because Egyptian men think if she is covering herself, simply she's got something to hide. Have you ever heard someone telling you that he sent his sister to see the bride alone, for her to see if the bride has a good hair, skin and body? Well if you haven't, it happens. 

It's gone from bad to worse. Hijab is only worn because maybe she's desperate of her bad hair and that she doesn't have something good to show! Well, if you excuse me, when my parents first told me about Hijab it was an obligation. So if you can see what our society is all about; It's covered because it's cheap and it's all bare because it has a value to show. If she's not wearing a Hijab or more appealing she's not left alone either, she's called having less self respect, not raised well, but at least we can see what we will be too afraid to see. We are becoming more visionary, more shallow and less qualitative. What I want to say is; fashion is fashion, a girl is a girl, a bitch is a bitch, Hijab is Hijab. You don't get to label people according to your past experience. Instead make some effort and get to know them. Spare yourself and her the guessing. Take her as she is, have you ever wanted to be with a girl who wanted you to get fat, all muscled up, wear tighter pants or larger t-shirts? You cannot save people you can only love them. I believe in that, because everyone has got their good and bad, you can only hope they learn something good from you. And about what a man loves; he loves how a girl can be independent and standing for herself. He loves how she could handle things on her own, but gives him the authority to handle the difficulties in both their lives. He despises neediness and drama. Story long short,  if you let him be your king, he won't hesitate to make you his queen.